Part 6 - manifesting love

Have you ever manifested something in your life?

Something that felt impossible in your lived experience. 

But, something you really wanted at the same time.

In high school and college, I had experienced endless heart breaks. They destroyed my self-esteem. I struggled with relating to the opposite sex for a long time. 

I held beautiful women on a pedestal and myself below it. 

As a result, I was often ‘needy’ and ‘seeking approval’. Because of my bitter experiences with finding love, I became sarcastic towards women. This certainly didn’t create any possibility for attraction.

I was dating left and right but struggled to meet the right person and it never turned into a great relationship.

By my late 20’s, I had had enough of this situation. I wanted to be in a great relationship and to be in love. I was ready to meet the person I would spend my life with.  I knew I had to take greater ownership of this dynamic in my life.

This led to Sunkulp #4  i.e. Heart and Mind Aligned Determination to get a handle on my love life.

Manifestation might be a far concept for many of you but there’s something magical that happens when every cell in your being gets aligned with a decision. Not only do you get aligned internally, it’s as if the universe becomes aligned with you.

Manifestation might be a far concept for many of you but there’s something magical that happens when…

I shared my struggle with a dear friend and my desire to have a great relationship. He suggested that I read the  book Power of your subconscious mind.

The book had a section on meeting your ideal soul mate. It suggested that I chant a specific affirmation night and day with deep feelings to attract my ideal life partner. This all sounded like wishful thinking but after having experienced enough pain, I was willing to try almost anything!

So I started meditating on  the affirmation day and night with deep feelings. I even had a cheesy song associated with it to get me in the right emotional state! haha

Here’s part of the affirmation I meditated on twice a day:

“I now attract the right woman who is in complete accord with me. This is a spiritual union because it is divine love functioning through the personality of someone with whom I blend perfectly.”

As I did this, I came across and became open to coaches and books that completely shifted my mindset around dating and relationships.

Once my desire and feelings for a beautiful and fulfilling relationship were aligned, it was as if the right actions and changes all began to show up. All I had to do was follow!

Six months after I had started the affirmation, I met Prairna. And a year later we got married!

Not only did I just meet someone and got married, I met the PERFECT person in every way imaginable! Our values, interests and desired lifestyle were in complete alignment as I had been affirming.

I had just manifested my life partner!

This experience was so eye opening that it firmly established my belief in a higher power, yet again.

How could 10+ years of agony vanish in just under a year? I was perplexed. It was so hard to believe all the shifts that had occurred in my life.

I started wondering…

If I could summon the powers of the infinite intelligence in the universe to shift my biggest challenge in life to date - which previously I didn’t even think was possible!!

What more could be possible in life?    

I invite you to take some time to reflect on the following questions and note your reflections - 

• What does reading this story bring up for me? 

• What do I believe is not possible in my life? 

• What would I like to shift in my life?

I would love to hear what comes up for you! 

-Nitin

P.S. A reminder that I’m sharing this story not for the sake of you knowing ‘my’ story; but rather so you can relate through it to reflect on YOUR own life story and step through to become the best version of YOU and create your best life! Thanks for being with me on this journey. 🙏